So, how do I deal with such clients? Easy - one laminated slide with a summary of the Australian life tables - male and female. I take their current age and give them their statistical life expectancy (statistical - not guaranteed - my PI insurance doesn't go that far ....! ) and ask them what they want to be when they grow up? This is the same thing I do in my Retirement Coaching - a new field in Australia where there are less than 15 of us qualified as Certified Retirement Coaches.
I say they have as many years to live as they have been probably been working - and the hard yards have already been done in that previous 30 years - career, relationship(s), marriage(s), divorce(s), retrenchment (s), kids, houses, mortgages etc. And it is now time to re-invent.
I use the singer Madonna as a role model - for re-invention only! Love or hate her for her singing, morals, image etc - I will always give her credit for re-inventing herself every 3-5 years. And she is now over 50. So, I say think like you are 20 again. Time to do another course - even if a 4 year degree full time. Pursue another career, have another gap year. Do more volunteering, Get married (again). The important thing is - DO something.
So my 10 tips for career re-invention:
1. Use the Madonna approach – every 3-5 years
2. Understand your personality, brain, work behaviours – and align your purpose, role and life to these
3. Read books, blogs, websites - anything - and exercise the brain. One interesting book is "Halftime" – talks about that up to the age 50 its about success and after 50 about significance.
4. Understand what Retirement is all about – that may motivate to reinvent – see my commentary on this. Just thinking about what retirement means may motivate you to do something.
5. Understand your life expectancy – it probably gives you a longer time frame than you are thinking now.
6. Understand when your money will run out if you don't re-invent - and whether you wish to live a subsistence existence on the age pension.
7. Have a 2020 Vision - in other words what the year 2020 looks like for you - and what is going to happen between now and then.
8. Get up to speed with technology – Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, Tweetdecks, Podcasts, ipods etc - its exciting and makes you look relevant.
9. Review your personal image and presentation – don’t look old. Colour the hair, get fit, shave off the 20 year moustache/beard, update the wardrobe etc.
10. And use the Madonna approach - AGAIN - every 3to 5 years.
And how do I know all this. I have done it - re-invent at the age of 47. Gone from being a Chartered Accountant, Operations Director and Corporate guy to a self employed Business, Executive and Retirement Coach - and I have just turned 50. I see my new career going for another 25 years - and I am having so much FUN.
So, DO something. Make a conscious decision that anything is possible - with patience, focus and persistence. And have fun along the way... :-)
PB
Copyright: Peter Black 2009
2 comments:
Peter,
You make an excellent point about the need for all of us to "reinvent" ourselves. We often see it with artistic people - but also see it happening more and more in professional sport. Shane Webcke from the Brisbane Broncos has written recently about the difficulty he faced when his playing a career came to an end. And how much more difficult is it if we don't plan - and take (calculated) risks, and move outside what we normally do. Another great Australian example of someone who was always prepared to change was the actor Bud Tingwell. Have a look at this for some more inspiration:
http://www.saleseffectiveness.com.au/the-legacy-of-charles-tingwell/
Cheers - Paul Sparks - www.saleseffectiveness.com.au
Excellent post about the need to reinvent ourselves. Your Madonna approach is right on the spot. Think about all the artists who failed to find a new image for themselves, they might had a feel of stardom but started to fade away once the spotlight turns against them.
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